Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Not gonna do it

To those people sending nasty comments/links about Ms. Lehtonen's son .... we respectfully ask you to stop. We are not going to subject this kid to the same tactics as have been used on others on PFA. He's done nothing wrong. At all. And we will not unjustly drag him through the mud the way people were on PFA.

We have also not published comments with really bad homophobic or racist language. And will not do so.

We ARE interested in links to Michael Tonello's online postings. Please forward those. We are not interested in driving traffic to his blog, however.

Let's let his words speak for themselves.

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

Admirable!

Anonymous said...

Breath of fresh air.

I would love to help you find more of Michael Tonello's postings but unfortunately my stomach turns inside out when I read his unwitty banter. I refuse to put myself through that anymore than I already have. I'll leave the detective work to those with stronger gag reflexes.

Anonymous said...

This was a wise decision to leave Donna Lehtonen's son out of the mess she has caused. She deserves everything she is getting here and then some, but he hasn't done anything wrong, except have a horrible mother.

Anonymous said...

I actually think Michael Tonello is much worse than his sidekick Donna Lehtonen. They do seem to fuel each other's fire and hatred of everything PF related. Why do they hate PF so much, yet cannot keep away? I mean, how many times do you have to get thrown out of a club before you realize that it is time to move on. Do they really spend this much time hating?

Moe, Larry, and Curly said...

Win Win.

So whats the backstory behind the silence?

Inquiring minds wanna know.

Anonymous said...

How about you put forth one shred of proof either of them run PFA. You can't.
It's an anonymous blog just like this one.

Odd they haven't made a comment here. Quite sure you won't post their comments. ?p

Anonymous said...

I have a lot of respect for whoever runs this "exposing" blog. Don't step down to the level that Michael did, threatening to post (or allowing commenters to post) private information that does not belong online. Admirable indeed!

In fact, there is a lot of juicy, incriminating bits on Tonello's past worth posting for the public eye to see, but alas, don't want to play the shitty game he's played for the past two years.

He's a bitter old man who needs a new hobby.

Anonymous said...

GOOD ON YOU PFAE!!!!!! Me think what some of us were hoping to find with PFA is finally manifested in YOU!!! Bless you!!

PFAExposed said...

Actually, we DO have proof that PFA is run by Michael Tonello. His IP address, for one, in a way that means he and only he owns the blog. Guess he forgot to use an IP blocker.

Anonymous said...

To anonymous at 10:06, as Michael and Donna used gleefully themselves, IPs are hard to deny.

Why should their comments be allowed? They embarrassed and hurt people like me who had done nothing to them except either disagree with their lies or have more than them, or both. They've had their time and place to bash and bully without check or provocation. Thanks to this blogger, they get the gift of seeing themselves as others see them and seeing firsthand how their actions feel. They may hate it, but it is a gift. And it's one that won't ever go away.

Thank you TPFAE for giving victims of Michael Tonello and Donna Lehtonen a voice and a place to speak. And thank you for using their own words and deeds to show the world how unkind they are to others.

Anonymous said...

In one of Michael Tonello's interview ...

"From when my sister and I were young my parents gave us a lot of freedom but at the same time were quite strict. We were taught the difference between RIGHT and WRONG."

"Don't get caught up in the drama and negativity! It's a slippery slope and fruitless. "

How come he doesn't seem to be living a life that he preaches?

What would his mother and sister think if they find out? Hearts will break. If you don't care about yourself, Michael, think of your loved ones.

Anonymous said...

Don't just say you have proof. Prove it. Put up the links so we can do the same confirmation you did.

They have claimed every blog they ever made.
Except PFA.
They have not started a new blog in years. Years.

So put up your proof about MT running it. Links and IP proof.

Anonymous said...

Targeting someone's child is wrong, but it's also wrong to use your child's identity to set up a phony facebook account for the purpose of stalking and harassing others.

Anonymous said...

"Don't just say you have proof. Prove it. Put up the links so we can do the same confirmation you did.

They have claimed every blog they ever made.
Except PFA.
They have not started a new blog in years. Years.

So put up your proof about MT running it. Links and IP proof."

How do you know this? Are you one of them?

Anonymous said...

"They have claimed every blog they ever made.
Except PFA.
They have not started a new blog in years. Years."

Excuse me? And this by your argument that PFA is not theirs? Spare me the stupidity. Every other blog they have or had, was for vested interest. Think Dr Jekyll.

PFA ... Mr Hyde. If Michael Tonello was loved and embraced by all on the Purse Forum, can you imagine every copy of his book would fly off the shelves. Got the picture? That's how I see it. It is my opinion.

If Donna Lehtonen didn't stalk and harass other Hermes PF members, she could seriously have made some friends, and when she does her reveals, we would have been really happy and congratulate her. What do we have now? She is not welcome there.

Put this all in perspective. The owners of Purse Forum do not dislike them for dislike sake. There were collectives of members from all walks of life who reported them. Mods and them had to take action. Geddit? Delusional to come up with some other reasons.